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Worst NYE ever

Nooma42

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It's been a while since I've been on here, but basically I feel lost and didn't really know where else to go.

Just feel so lonely and depressed. It's been building up for about a week now. But today my ex confirmed she doesn't want to get back together. We had a holiday booked for three weeks time I'm no longer going because we're no longer speaking (even as friends). She blocked me on Facebook about an hour ago and that hurt.

Also really missing my dog. I also have Aspergers Sysndrome and don't find making friends easy. He was my best friend but he died 6 months ago. Usually he would know when I was depressed and come sit on my lap.

Just feel hopeless and not really in the mood for the festivities.
 
bert tomato

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Look mate, you have to dust yourself off, and hunt for the next girl. All is fair in Love and War!!

If I were you, I would block her back, and go further, delete all traces of her on your computer, block her number on your mobile, and burn all photos with her.

It will release you from her grip, and you can focus on the next sexy lady..
 
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Look mate, you have to dust yourself off, and hunt for the next girl. All is fair in Love and War!!.
not always as easy done................ I'm still stuck "with hilda" in my head.

stan
 
bert tomato

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now have you seen dudley birds? not that sexy :)
Sometimes you have to man up, and take what you can get. Law of jungle stan, law of the jungle.
 
bert tomato

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Ah yes the normal laws of logic and literature do not apply in your universe.
 
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Thanks for the advice... but I have no idea what you're talking about.
I think what they are saying is 'forget this girl, find another one'

but that's the hardest thing

I lost my girl five years ago, and I still haven't found another
I am hopeless with women.
I ask them out, and sometimes they even come for a date or two
but it never gets beyond that

I feel for you dude.

I lost my girl and eventually it sent me mad
So I don't have any answers


Maybe you should get another dog?
pets can be bought
unlike women

and walking a dog is supposed to be a good way to meet people.
 
Nooma42

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I got the joke (despite the 'laws of my universe') but just didn't get references.

Thanks for the help. I think I'm more lonely than missing my ex. I know we're better off like this and I will feel happier in the long run.

Dog will happen, just after my epic summer holiday!
 
bert tomato

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I got the joke (despite the 'laws of my universe') but just didn't get references.

Thanks for the help. I think I'm more lonely than missing my ex. I know we're better off like this and I will feel happier in the long run.

Dog will happen, just after my epic summer holiday!
I apologise for being flippant.

New year, new beginning!
 
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