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I am so worried about my partner..his condition isn't stable at all. He wont go back to hospital voluntary. We had a massive fall out because he's starting drinking and smoking weed!! Trust me ,that stuff has made him worse over the last few weeks. He takes aload of meds for his condition. I told him so many times to please stop and I'm so stressed out, and I stupidly said I dont want him around mw or our child when hes like that. Hes an absolute state. He took it way out of context and now I've not seen him all day. I'm hoping hes at his own flat. He left his mobile at mine so I cant even contact him. I'm his girlfriend, not officially his carer but these I feel I am his carer. Things are so bad getting. I'm breaking my heart.
 
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Hi,
You could always contact his GP, who can assess him and arrange for a psychiatrist to see him.
They might section him if it's necessary, I hope he gets better.
The hospital can help him with his weed addiction.
Sorry this is happening to you.
Here to listen.
Take care
 
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I am so worried about my partner..his condition isn't stable at all. He wont go back to hospital voluntary. We had a massive fall out because he's starting drinking and smoking weed!! Trust me ,that stuff has made him worse over the last few weeks. He takes aload of meds for his condition. I told him so many times to please stop and I'm so stressed out, and I stupidly said I dont want him around mw or our child when hes like that. Hes an absolute state. He took it way out of context and now I've not seen him all day. I'm hoping hes at his own flat. He left his mobile at mine so I cant even contact him. I'm his girlfriend, not officially his carer but these I feel I am his carer. Things are so bad getting. I'm breaking my heart.
Hi curlz,

He obviously needs help. However, if he refuses this, and starts to harm you or your child, you need to keep safe. Of course you want him to get better, but the fact that he's smoking and drinking says that he isn't doing what's best for him, and is actually harming himself by doing this.

If it gets to the point where he gets abusive, and he refuses to get help voluntarily, give him an ultimatum - either he gets the help he needs, or you walk away with the child. You cannot put your child in danger.

Much love <3
 
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