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will i ever be ready

loulabelle

loulabelle

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i hurd a christmas song today 'all i want for christmas is you' and the one that sez 'i agve you my heart and the very next day you gave it away'

they upset me i stareted thinking about my ex...

i was left woundering if i will ever be ready for a relationship again.. im not sure i can go through that pain again he hurt me so much when he left me he has left me damaged and i think unable to love agian.. im not even sure if i show my family love anymore?????

will i ever be ready again i mean can i love again will i love again or am i damaged forever ?????

im too scared to get hurt im too scraed that i will fuck things up again.........

im so worried im gonna be lonely forever
 
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Miss Moody

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1.You clearly havnt healed yet
2. everybody takes different amounts of time to get over a broken heart
3.You will love again when your ready and when you love yourself again
4.You wont always be lonely again - Someone told me this, dont put your ex in such high regard otherwise you will be constantly setting yourself up for a knock back thinking 'oh my god my partner he left me, he is so wonderful etc' It ended with your partner, and there are plently of other people out there that will be capable good partners. Dont believe in soul mates. There is more than your ex partner out there.
 
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dusty1.3

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hi loulabelle

you will love again, probably meet someone when you least expect it,when you dont look or feel pain of losing ex, in time when you are ready,try hard to love you and things you love doing, when you let your ex not be part of how u wish this or that, you will be more confident and take your pick of dates,your confidence will shine through to someone you can care about or even fall in love with, takes time, i wish you luck, try to make best of what you have just now, that way it can get better x
 
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