i think its just life. if u take expectations out of it and look at the natural world u will see alsorts getting bad deals, from humans to mammals to fish bad things happen its just how u deal with them. i soooooooo need to learn how to deal with bad stuff lol
I have to say I completely understand. Lately i feel like stress and bad things are following me round like some sort of black cloud.
I hope that you get the help you need. I'm sure if you look at one of the specific thread for the problems you are facing there will be some really useful advice and there are always loads of people around who will be able to tell you how they have coped in similar situations.
I hope you start to feel better soon. Take care and keep posting.