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LX_Marego

LX_Marego

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I lost two friends in one week. One in a work related accident and another serving our country in Iraq. Both leave families behind and i don't know how to cope besides using.
 
Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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im not sure why good people die.
im sorry you lost 2 friends in such a short space of time.
there has to be another way of coping with the trauma and stress that doesn't involve hurting yourself
do you have anyone who was a friend to both of them and yourself? maybe chatting about good memories you have of them would help
please stop using ,im sorry to sound hard but you don't want to remember them by your own life coming to an end?
huge HUGS and my best wishes
I hope you can get through this pain and grief ,much love
Lucretia
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LX_Marego

LX_Marego

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Thanks Lucretia

I haven't used but the temptation is there. I do have mutual friends but they live so far and can't bring myself to talk to anyone about them. I have finals this week and all I can think about is my friends. I need to study and can't concentrate
 
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