Why do I struggle to get any help?

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Chamaeleon

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I'm a 34 year old Virgin, I have learning disabilities and I'm often the victim of hostile treatment whenever I go out. I thought people like me were supposed to be protected?


"inspiration porn is when disabled people are called inspirational or brave for doing all the things that regular people do. It's a problem because it assumes that anyone with a disability must have it so much worse than the rest of us. And because it uses disabled people to make us non disabled people feel good about ourselves, or to make us do something, like exercise or whatever. And disabled people aren't tools, they're people."
Taken from this site https://www.facebook.com/LetsTalkDisability

Absolute pish... we're not in the 90s or 80s or whatever anymore, regular people receive WAYYYYY better treatment now. Regular people are the ones that receive the 'special' treatment nowadays.

Do those people live in better areas, or are they just in denial? Society now isn't as moral as is was in the 90's, 80s, etc...

Regular people (the good looking especially) are treated superiorly nowadays, they are treated like mini celebrities.

I'm disabled/learning disability/personality disorder etc and the way regular people are treated has me a little bit jealous, I wish I got that level of special/first class treatment.
 
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Its true us disabled people suffer more than most normal people could do if they tried to lol yet they complain about us they dont have a clue or a heart and use us to provide themselves with entertainment the sick bastards

people try saying oh my lifes definately worse than your ohh
but if they knew of half the pain I have been through they would bow down and worship me I cant stand it I really cant
 
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Chamaeleon

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Its true us disabled people suffer more than most normal people could do if they tried to lol yet they complain about us they dont have a clue or a heart and use us to provide themselves with entertainment the sick bastards

people try saying oh my lifes definately worse than your ohh
but if they knew of half the pain I have been through they would bow down and worship me I cant stand it I really cant
I dunno why some people still say that (from that site) when regular people clearly come first nowadays. I'm treated subhuman nowadays. No support whatsoever, I had to contact my MP.
 
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I think the stigma associated with being Mentally Ill is connected with the fear factor. "There the grace of god go I". People are scared of getting close to what they could become.
 
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Hey Fraser!
I'm sorry to hear that people are mistreating you. I don't think the quote was intended to be nasty but instead to avoid patronizing disabled people. Although I don't think it was well placed on a disability site. Either way, it could have been expressed better.
In what ways do people treat you like subhuman? Do you think it's generally intentional or unintentional? I always hoped people would treat people with disabilities with respect and admiration. I'm sad to hear this isn't the case.
 
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Chamaeleon

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Hey Fraser!
I'm sorry to hear that people are mistreating you. I don't think the quote was intended to be nasty but instead to avoid patronizing disabled people. Although I don't think it was well placed on a disability site. Either way, it could have been expressed better.
In what ways do people treat you like subhuman? Do you think it's generally intentional or unintentional? I always hoped people would treat people with disabilities with respect and admiration. I'm sad to hear this isn't the case.
They ignore me etc when I need meds to calm my stress.

Mario Kart 8 will be out soon so that'll help.
 
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Chamaeleon

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How unfair is it though? We all fund the NHS through taxation just for them to ignore you whenever you need medication for something. Ignored, ignored, ignored... I'm through being treated inhumanely nowadays, every time these people treat me like trash I'm getting in contact with our MP or seeking human rights groups and a solicitor. They neednae think they can just treat me like trash now, now that I'm seeing about these things myself now.
 
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Chamaeleon

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Btw I have a psychologically disturbed cyberstalker who keeps disconnecting my net every time I start saying stuff about the NHS.

I have depression but the NHS is ignoring me and I've to put up with constant stalking but I can't get this psycho off the streets or bear minimum away from a computer because he/she won't type to me anymore. But every time I state something negative about the NHS he/she cuts off my net and I have to troubleshoot to get it back online. 6 years of this...


Split second I start dissing the NHS for ignoring me my net will disconnect again.
 
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Chamaeleon

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Its true us disabled people suffer more than most normal people could do if they tried to lol yet they complain about us they dont have a clue or a heart and use us to provide themselves with entertainment the sick bastards

people try saying oh my lifes definately worse than your ohh
but if they knew of half the pain I have been through they would bow down and worship me I cant stand it I really cant
I haven't been on in a few days now. It's not just that things are based on how popular you are too, like because I say I get bullied and hardly have friends etc they tried to ignore me as much as they possibly could and sounded very uncaring over phones etc, unless I said I had 40, 000 fans on youtube or something. They finally got in contact with me and I just refused... forget about it sort of attitude.
 
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I haven't been on in a few days now. It's not just that things are based on how popular you are too, like because I say I get bullied and hardly have friends etc they tried to ignore me as much as they possibly could and sounded very uncaring over phones etc, unless I said I had 40, 000 fans on youtube or something. They finally got in contact with me and I just refused... forget about it sort of attitude.
Actually where I lived a decade ago, mh services didn't give a shit either. I think it's a post code lottery, mh services are first class where I live now.
 
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Chamaeleon

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Actually where I lived a decade ago, mh services didn't give a shit either. I think it's a post code lottery, mh services are first class where I live now.
I have disabilities so regular people come first here, but pretending to be a star on youtube or something bypasses these rules and grants you specialized treatment. OP should pretend to have 40, 000 or something subscribers on youtube or something.
 
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