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Why do i find it hard letting go of certain people even after a long time

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Corrs77

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Why do I find myself thinking about someone often eventhough weve stopped talking for a year ..

Maybe this person was bad for me from the experience. But I did enjoy times and conversations.

To me it sucks to not have the same energy with other people . I accept things change but nothings ever the same.

Maybe everyone has or had that edgy type person in their life that they won't forget
 
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I'm exactly the same, Corrs. I find it really hard to let go of people. Even after nearly 25 years, I still look up my ex on Facebook. Him and a number of others I haven't seen for years.

I'm a contrast- I find it very hard to let go of people and yet can never seem to hold on to them.
 
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I used to be like that. Not anymore. You can get rid of people's hold on you if you start liking and accepting yourself.
 
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