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why can't I cry?

maybe.shes.a.wildflower

maybe.shes.a.wildflower

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So the only time I cry is when my animals die. I feel like I need to just cry my eyes out but I never can. I wish i could as i might at least feel some sort of release. Anyone else suffer like this?
 
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Yes I do, can;t cry - I think its my anti psychotics

Sorry you are suffering
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I cant cry too, well I cry but when I'm alone and normally without a reason, I'm unable to cry in public and to cry about things I'm supposed to. I don't take any meds btw so idk why I do this
 
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I know precisely what you mean.:hug1:
The only time I cry is when something touching or exciting happens. Happy tears seem to come on fine.
It's very odd.
 
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I can only cry rarely, I have been though too much to reach that point anymore I guess. I do when I see my doctor, I can't stop. I guess that's shame and fear.. But that the only time I really open up.
 
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Crying is actually pretty easy for me to do. I cry all the time. Just cried yesterday, in fact. Sorry you feel unable to let out emotions that way. You can let them out in other ways, though; talking to people about experiences, writing about how you feel and what you're going through, expressing feelings through artistic works, etc. I hope you find release and relief. :hug1:
 
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I go between bouts of not being able to cry and doing nothing but crying.

I know what you mean about crying when animals die. I'm the same, I also cry when I read about cruelty to animals.
 
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I didnt cry for years. Now I got the opposite problem. Cry for hours sometimes at home byself but now its even happening in public too. I hate it
 
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I only ever remember crying once as a child, that was when I realised my own morality. Through my early adulthood I never cried at all that I can remember; but over the past five years I've turned into a right wimp and cry loads, mostly on my own when no one is about. :cry:
 
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I find it very difficult to cry & have found that peeling onions sometimes helps to get me going. x
 
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Since I posted in this thread, I had a good sob at a novel i've been reading.
I totally knew what was coming (a old lady character's death) but it really upset me 'cause it got me thinking about my Gran who's in a home and is in the late stages of dementia.

So yes, if you want to cry, try seeking out some sad books/films/music!
 
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Since I posted in this thread, I had a good sob at a novel i've been reading.
I totally knew what was coming (a old lady character's death) but it really upset me 'cause it got me thinking about my Gran who's in a home and is in the late stages of dementia.


So yes, if you want to cry, try seeking out some sad books/films/music!
You big softy pot!! :hug1:
 
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Unfortunately my anger uutlet is an undesirable one so I need yo get it fixed for their sake and mine :( I know I'm so full of emotion but all I can express is rage and I know it upsets my son :( he's only 6 so I dont like him too see me this way. I finally made the call but it was just to make a telephone appointment but they're ringing back this arvo. I just need to book my Dr appointment next but I am lacking enthusiasm to go back as the mirt doesn't seem to be helping much :( ahhh
 
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