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Who would do this???

megirl

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So yes I need to stand up for that lovely dog of mine xx
 
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And yep he has a girlfriend he even showed me a photo of her.
And told me...well specifics that who would do that?

Guess I still think of him as a nice guy,
Guess hes really not ..well who knows
 
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I know this may sound bizzare but I havnt heard from my ex for a week and a half. Other than texting last week that Its a nice day I didn't answer havnt heard from him since
Now I'm thinking I hope HE'S OK??
what's wrong with me
 
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What a reply from a phone call from one of our friends obviously cares me more about my well being then his,
She has apparently moved into his.
I shouldn't be judgemental but she has three children i n Brazil which one is intellectually disabled so shes here helping them out ?? Whatever maybe why I havnt heard from him
He pretty much can fuck off it hurts me but does he care the funny thing is I think about our dog he doesn't actually give a toss about him he abandoned my dog and the dog knows what he did
 
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Well apprantly she's moved in with him he told me she has a mummy tummy then he tells me they had a hot night together and barely slept anyway who would say that
 
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That's the reason I havnt heard from him.
Makez me want to hurt myself,
 
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A friend of ours phoned me and told me maybe I should change my cell number or just block him
Don't know how to block his number but find out soon
 
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Well clearly that's why I havnt heard from him lately. Sorry batman I know he's most yr friend after all don't want to break up yr friendship
 
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Well our friend
Aka batman said don't worry about him anymore hes not worth it
 
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I still feel like he cares??
I feel a little stupid actually,
Anyway havnt heard from him after pretending he cares now nothing!!
Thinking of my dog a few times I was OK but it almost broke me a few times he makes no effort to do anything for my dog.
It hurts me for him ..(my dog)
I've just spent $800 getting these growths removed. The ex won't help me. And my dogs not 11 years old yet the ex told me well he's almost 11 he's old don't bother??
At least I have a job now.

And the vets have let me pay the bill off very much appreciated
 
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And the ex wanted to show his girlfriend the dog ....
He has no right he can fuck off forever
 
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@megirl Your sounding stressed i do hope your ok. He seems to be playing mind games with you. Contacting you then ignoring you dont let him get to you Do as your friend suggested and block his number then he cant pester you anymore. You’ve come so far these last few months getting a job and doing well at it. You dont need him in your life. Keep strong megirl
 
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daffy yes thank you have a great job I really love no stress at all
 
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I am enjoying my job and thanks for reminding me how far I've come,
Lots of hugs to you x
 
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Had a better day yesterday and today. Friend came down and stayed since over went home a short time ago.
Wished she lived closer feel bit sad when she left. Silly but that's OK
 
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