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Who would do this???

megirl

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Gee dont laugh my ex text me this morning...this is true..

'Hi how are you and pup (my 11 year old dog) and carries on to say 'are you home about 11 as I would like Alice (the girlfriend) to meet the dog'

?ha he abandoned that lovely dog who loved my ex to bits.
Despite me being on a benefit with very little money he earns loads.
Did he pay for dog food or what ever vet bills.
Does he even bother with the dog NOPE
My dog now and why the fuck would I want to see her.
 
Urban Hermit

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Ok I will delete his number now!! And if he texts me just ignore and get rid of it.
Who the fuck would say that. .

'We had a great night shes hot and we didn't get much sleep..' Here I am an idiot thinking he cares
Wow , that's really cruel of him, I would highly recommend you block him and his number, you are worth more than to waste another second on someone who would hurt you and keep on twisting that pain again and again.

Xx
 
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Well why the hell would I want her on my property and why does he want her to meet my poor lovely dog he abandoned.

It did actually crush me when he didn't want to know our dog!!

Does he pay anything towards my dog..

At the very least hes never ever taken my dog for a run, a swim a ride in his ute.

And lastly doesn't he really get that my mental health is actually quite fragile
 
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That's why the dog everytime he sees my ex comes running back to me!!
He has never done this with anyone but its like my dog has and knows hes been abandoned by his other owner
 
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Can't believe I was married to him lol
 
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I wouldn’t let him in. Why would his g/f want to see the dog? It has nothing to do with him now if hes not paying bills for the dog. It reminds me of my ex once he turned up to pick th girls up and said who does his g/f ( only 19 half his age)remind me off. I didnt know as she was sat in the car. ‘She just looks like you when you were younger’ I could have slapped him.
 
megirl

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Thanks daffy,
Its all quite bizzare.
I am sure if I text him to see him when shes at his place....
Well that's weird and certainly not going to happen,

Why the hell should she get the privelledge of seeing my dog and letting them especially her on my property??
Does he think he has some kind of power over me or what??

Does he want me back on the mental health ward.
At least I have a lovely friend who with mine and her dog getting on so well she can have him at her place
 
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Just say no. He’s obviousely on some kind of power trip and knows it will upset you. The mans a moron and your best off out of it.
 
megirl

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Still dont get it!!
I've had mental health issues for so long,
Why would anyone do this stuff to someone who is quite fragile mental health wise wish I could work it out..
Guess that's the nurse in me try understand and go from there
Except this is me
 
megirl

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He used to be my husband saved me from my family of physical and mental abuse so why kick all this shit in my face that's what I can't really get my head around.
I used to think the world of him
 
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It doesnt make sense. I cant see a girlfriend wanting to go to her boyfriends ex wife's house to see his old dog.

Which leads me to believe that he is doing all of this to try and provoke reactions from you and to hurt you.

It all goes back to you needing to cut ties from him completely. Take away his stage.
 
megirl

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Still I don't get it.
I havnt even changed my will yet as who do I leave anything too?
I need to get this sorted this week as I need to ensure him or my fucking so called family don't get anything

I was being kind (I'm an idiot) leaving him in my will.
I need to somehow stipulate my so called family are out
 
megirl

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Still can't comprehend why he would do this? Does he think hes helping me???
 
megirl

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Why would he want to hurt me?
Like I thought he still gave a toss?
Maybe I need to still be under mental health services because this is just becoming too much for me too deal with
 
megirl

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I can't get my head around any of this
 
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