Who would do this???

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He's keeping you dangling and messing with your mind. Time to get rid.

As a bloke I'd reiterate the advice by Lunus above - next time he contacts you send him a text requesting that he no longer contacts you. You have moved on. Block him if necessary.
 
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Hey appreciated its hard when my heart says that's nice he cares.
But then telling me how great his girlfriend is and in bed (yep he said it) and well yep that's it no longer replying
 
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I appreciate its hard for you, I think those of us responding just feel that if If he cared about your feelings at all he wouldn't be sending you the texts that he is sending.
 
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Ever heard 'treat em mean keep em keen' ??
 
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Hes treated u mean and hes keepng u keen
 
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Well its the weekend heard from him early yesterday texting me just basic stuff its a cold day ..
Anyway havnt heard from him again. Hes full of shit

There's so many things I could go on about but anyway I can't deal with him anymore
 
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Its so hard to cut off from an affection source but its just biology.
Hes got power over you once you shut him down you will feel so much better.
I know about this.
If you dont, you may find that this emotional headgame sets you back from trusting and taking a chance in future. Cut the ties asap x
 
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Thank you I know now I have to
Laugh if you like he even showed me a photo of her
That hurts the last at least two years he absolutely refused to take a photo of me or never ever a photo of both of us together now looking back I feel stupid
 
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Hes got someone in his life
We only broke up end of march, in may he was already announcing he was single

Its quite interesting the other day I was putting wood on the fire and I could hear him telling me off about using the firewood
Like WTF
 
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He showed me a photo of her I said at least shes not as pretty as me,
Them he tells me how good she is good in bed
 
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Its funny but writing this for others makes me see it for real
I need to ignore him
 
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You need to shut him down. He will be like :scratcheshead: 'where she go, what she figured, what she know, oh I was having such fun'
He will persist for a while if you can block his number its a start.
It doesnt matter what hes done, the photo, etc. It stops now, Its about what you do.
Its a cruel game.
 
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Truly I am %100 taking on what you are saying
It is like hes still got control I realise that. Just why like text me random crap clearly hes not with her at this time so why do that?
But yes thank you for that xx
 
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I know he text me last weekend telling me they were away down south etc.
That actually hurt
 
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Can you think of any reason a man who chose to leave u now keeps telling u about his life, new gf? I mean its not right is it. Something idiotic going on in his head. Ditch the fcker.
Theres no good reason. None.
Its ok I just been in similar shoes. Not the new gf part though that would really have been it. I think Id have cut it sooner though.
This isnt love.
 
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Thank you so much,
You are an angel x
Maybe that's something I have to do just change my number it's a pain to do it but I doubt he would turn up here unannounced
 
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Just block it, dont let him inconvenience u with changing it.
Then u can see the acceleration of his attempts to grab the reins he lost hahahaha (laugh like Maleficent)
Actually look what happened to her! Happens to us all.
 
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Thanks so very much,
xx
You've made it become clear
 
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Good now keep thinking of veggies and hedgies-the better things:hug: x
 
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