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Where is Love?

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R2Y5A0N2

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I am a single 24yo male bisexual who has only ever had one boyfriend when I was 17 and he was 30 and it didn't work out because he loved me and I didn't feel strongly enough about him and it was long distance.

I often feel worthless, unwanted, unloved and hopeless about the future. I worry that I'm never going to find true love and no one will ever want me for anything more than meaningless sex/hookups.

I know people say that love will happen when the time is right and I like to believe that, but is there anything I can do to enhance my chances of finding Mr Right?

I've tried online dating and that is useless.

I am currently focused on changing my diet and getting fit to increase my chances of finding someone, but will someone be able to handle my mood swings, depression and anxiety in the long-term?
 
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Forgot to add that I always seem to fancy/fall for straight guys who are in relationships or gay/bi men who are in relationships or just guys who don't fancy me.
 
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is there any hobbies or activities you can do where you are around men? activities you enjoy i mean :hug:

oh and when i saw this thread title i then got this song in my head :redface:

 
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is there any hobbies or activities you can do where you are around men? activities you enjoy i mean :hug:

oh and when i saw this thread title i then got this song in my head :redface:

Well I like swimming and I'm starting the gym next week so that might help.

That song is the reason is choose that particular thread title. Love that song and the film Oliver!
 
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I'm looking for a manly, bisexual man who is very open-minded and experimental as I'd like to try group sex, threesomes, ect with men and women and potentially have an open relationship.
 
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