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When 'its not you'

Hikikomori1979

Hikikomori1979

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Nov 8, 2017
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Im not sure if this is the right forum to post this in, but something ive noticed is when things are not about you, especially in relation to everything that goes on (a timeline, a continuum), and when things you think are important, the second party told you that it was anything but

Granted there will always be a bias on perspectives, or what you expect in return, what happened is someone might have envisioned the picture of a person that played that role for them. Of which you didnt stand a chance. Its unhelpful in making me think that i would have got the same result for not even venturing out than get the same end result

Overthinking doesnt help, but it feels like im living in my own head there :low:
 
exyz

exyz

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Jun 14, 2017
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Sorry, not quite understanding the post but do understand the part about feeling like you are living in your own head. It is an awful feeling, I'm sorry.
 
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