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Fairy Lucretia

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become your boyfriends problems?
like when should you let them support you and what with?

when should you just keep dealing with it on your own?

lets say family problems should you let your BF support you or keep your problems/worries to yourself? xxxx
 
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Personal I think that being part of a couple and relationship one of the best and most loving things you can do for eachother is to share your problems with someone who really cares xxxx

In sickness and health, for better for worst etc... It just about love and caring xxx
 
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surely a relationship is a unit you both work in unity when 1 is low the other picks you up vice-versa thats assuming its a unit some relationships 1 person is fully committed while the other half asses it
 
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Supporting each other is an important part of a relationship.
 
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If your boyfriend was having problems with this family would you want to help him?
Helping each other is part of being in a relationship - it can be hard at the start of a relationship, as you don't know each other all that well, but as time goes on you can then support each other more and more.
 
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it's good to communicate and support each other, but at the same time you shouldn't be dependant on someone else to fix all your problems
 
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I’m sure he would want to be there for you just as you would for him. Your a couple so you listen to each other’s problems
 
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Any time you need help, your boyfriend should be there for you, just like when your boyfriend is struggling your there for him :hug:
 
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