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what was my threat?

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Rosedoll

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hi, I had a bad time last month and in messages to family I said that I am ugly, useless and that my husband has lowered his standards with me ect and that he should see the light. I also said to them "don't worry I am not going to kill him (my husband) more likely myself." Cut a long story my sister in law replied and she sent me a helpful long message and in one of the messages she said that the "threats about myself and my husband don't scare her."
what did she mean by threats? I am now worried she thinks I wanted to harm my husband. What do you think?


I am ok and know my actions were irrational and scary for others and am now seeking help.

Thanks for reading. I don't know why but this has made me so anxious!
 
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midnightphoenix

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from the sounds of it she thought you was threatening to kill yourself :hug:

some people just dont understand suicidial depression and try to help but say the wrong thing cause they dont know what how to best help :hug:
 
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hello, Thank you for replying yeah I can see thats the only threat I did but not sure what she meant about the threat about husband though, i want to ask her but its been over a month now and I feel like its all been forgotten by everyone but me.
 
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midnightphoenix

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hello, Thank you for replying yeah I can see thats the only threat I did but not sure what she meant about the threat about husband though, i want to ask her but its been over a month now and I feel like its all been forgotten by everyone but me.
maybe she was just getting that out there in case you decided to make that threat? :hug:
 
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