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What does 'lovely' mean in this context?

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'I don't know of anyone who hates you youre such a lovely person'

Do you think the person who said this to me cares about me/sees me as a friend?
 
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Yes...I mean, with so little details, I don't see it any other way.
 
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What does 'such a lovely person' mean? How would the person who said this see me to say this to me?
 
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How often would you say this to people? How much would you have to care about those you do say it to?
 
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Damn I got in deep on this one :confused: idk mannn, I can't overthink this for you. I don't know your relationship to them, the situation, their personality, so many other details. Only you know all that, I think you gotta really figure that out on your own if you're trying to go that deep into it but at least it's not a bad thing to say to someone.
 
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"You're such a lovely person" would be something I'd say to a friend (because you want your friends to be lovely people!)
 
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Yeah, like for example, I just told Luke in PM that he was a lovely person and I just meant it exactly as im pretty sure he took it. There's alot of reasons, I said it cause he replied to me but there could be so many other reasons for someone to say it.
 
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Ever thought that it was a word of kindness to a kind hearted person
 
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It sounds lke this person was responding to a concern you voiced about being hated. I wouldn't read anything more into it than this person sees you as such a nice person that they can't imagine anyone could hate you. They could potentially be a friend and/or care about you but that one sentence doesn't give us that information. It speaks to how they see your character, not the way they feel about you.
 
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I would say its usually related to kindness, thoughtfulness, gentleness. I often think or say that someone is lovely when they have shown these qualities. 'Thats so lovely of you' or 'arent you lovely for doing that' when they have done something really nice. For example I know someone who has found all their old coats, jackets and even some sleeping bags and is taking them to the homeless.
 
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