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What do you do if your falsely accused of rape?

Tired Daisy

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I'm sorry but this really pisses me off... Ok so some woman that I had a date with said she'd claim rape if I don't stay with her. I haven't had sex with her but I received oral from her. I told her from the start that I didn't want a relationship with her. She gave me oral out of her own will and she wanted to spend time with me. She also tried to force me to have sex with her but I told her straight that I did not fancy her in that way and now she wants to f**k me over with a false rape claim if I don't stay with her. I must admit I was a fool for being desperate and to let her her give me oral. I'd never force anybody to do anything that they didn't want to do thats not my thing, but now it looks like I've been grabbed by the balls and get forced into a relationship that I don't want to be in otherwise I'll get a rape claim filed against me. This has really pissed me off but not only that I'm not that type of person I don't even like sex, she offered me oral and I took it like a damn fool now I feel like my life is fucked :scared:
 
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spiritfriend

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This is a tough situation. I find is disgusting that she would do something like that. Lying about these things is no joke.
Try not to panic now (I know, not helpful.) If she does report you, be honest. Tell the truth. Remember, they'll also need evidence, which she obviously won't have.
I googled some information. A lot came up. Research. Find out what you can do to protect yourself from this woman.
Good luck.
 
Tired Daisy

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I pray that the evidence proves my innocents but at the same time I'm scared I think what I'm going to have to do is see her when she wants me to come around and try reason with her and hope she don't try anything on me but one thing I'm not gonna do is any sexual stuff with her. I'm really stuck now. She calls me everyday I hate it. Shes just not my type at all. I don't even like a womans couchie it grosses me out. I'd rather have a cock up my ass I'm serious oh well I guess I've been a fool for taking oral from her. The Police here are always on a womans side tho its like they can say anything to gain control over a male. I'm just gong to end it if I'm accused of rape I really am but in the mean time I guess I just gotta do what she says and try meet her demands on what days I can and reason with her. I know one thing that I'm not going to be able to have sex with her :( I just want this shit to end so that I can have some piece
 
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I've got it. Heres my plan so I'm going to stay in contact with her over text messaging that I don't want sex and that be evidence right? the police can check out text messages and stuff and also facebook messages and the conversations although she threatened me with the false rape claim over the phone if I speak to her via facebook and text messaging then the evidence will be there for the police to investigate. I'm going to ignore her calls and speak to her via social media I think thats my best choice at least then its all there in text.
 
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'Run like Hell'
 
Nikita

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Make sure you text her and say something like, 'I don't want to go out with you you are not my type it doesn't matter if you do accuse me of rape I still am not going out with you you know I haven't made you do anything unwilling and we haven't even had sex',and 'threats to accuse me or rape aren't going to make me get with you I prefer men anyway.'Then the police will have evidence they can follow and usually if they put pressure on a a liar they will get to the truth eventually so you have nothing to fear,just tell the truth and be honest.I don't think you can reason with this woman she is resorting to blackmail so it isn't likely you can reason with her.
 
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You can also go to the police yourself and have her prosecuted for stalking and harassment,you shouldn't be scared of her falsely accusing you ,tell her you are reporting her for stalking you,and if she doesn't back down,do it,report her,we will see who the police believe,it should be easy to show there is no evidence for her accusation of rape!
 
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Yeah the text message idea sounds like a good plan. Keep any proof you can use against her close.
I agree with Nikita.
 
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