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What do I do? I need advice...please

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LouiseAbby

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So, my sister is starting to self-harm but it's minor and the only thing I'm worried about is when and what if it gets worse because I know the cycle etc. I know my sister won't talk to me again etc but that is the risk I am taking. :low:

I have been speaking to this lady/teacher at college and told her about it all...and she has advised me to tell my mum. I want to of course but I'm really struggling on how to tell her and when's best to tell her. :low:(Given the circumstances she got told a couple of days ago her sister/my auntie has cancer) so given that, I know it will be harder and I can't do that to my mum but I also know it will never be a good time to tell her.

Please help...Any advise on how to tell her? etc.

Thank you
 
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I'm not sure if I can help much but you need to talk to her. She will want to know, trust me.

Good luck. I'm sure clever people with more insight will be along soon.
 
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