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What do I do? I have a neighbor who

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Just stands in front of my windows and his all day long everyday. It's an apartment building so I can't make him go away. But I hate him so much because of what he and the rest of the neighbors have done to me that I can't ignore him. I don't say a word to him or any of the rest of them but I'm a ticking time bomb. I'm going to blow soon. And embarrass myself. And none of them will be bothered by me. They'll simply call the police and use the police to try and scare me. It's five against one. I can't win no matter what I do. I've even started watching them to make them uncomfortable. And it works as a temporary measure. They won't talk to each other if I'm there listening. They leave. But that's not going to work forever. They'll eventually adjust to my presence and ignore me. And laugh at me knowing I'm not going to do anything besides stand there. It's like being in prison. And I have no prison gang of my own. I'm alone. Forever and always. I just want out. I can't make it through a tenth summer here in this apartment building.
 
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Can you move?
 
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Now they're going to steal the camera that I've aimed at my garden right out of the flower box on my second floor window. They announced it today within earshot of me. They're going to use the flunky Superintendent of building todo it when my mother and I leave the property. We'll return and it will be gone. And they'll get away with it. The police will not help. They never do. They are a horribly corrupt and clannish police department. And have been sued many many times.
Harrison Police Dept. vindicated after string of lawsuits
Ex-Harrison firefighter comes forward with harassment, retaliation claim
Harrison Police Department sued by man involved in 2017 car crash
Sex, Cops and Videotape: Girl Claims Abuse
 
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Everyone pat close attention to 4:10 to 4:25 -》
That is where I'm living every moment of my life everyday. In those fifteen seconds. Neighbors all around me bent on harming me. All complicit. They don't even care that I know. Just like Rosemary. Because they know they're going to win in the end. And no one is coming to help me.
 
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Also pay close attention within the last ten seconds at 6:17 to 6:20. You'll see me completely wrecked and without hope anymore once I've realized that I'm done. My clannish, cultish neighbors winning. And me wrecked.
 
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Can I give you a hug? :hug:

I'm on the other side of the pond, sweetheart - and still very sure your neighbour's aren't plotting against you.


Ira Levin thought up that story...a very clever but macabre man. Rosemary's Baby is a great film. But just a film. Just the product of a writer's great imagination...and Roman Polanski's incredible direction.

Rosemary's Baby isn't a yardstick for normal behaviour. It isn't real. You're not living in the film.

You're safe in your home. Your neighbours aren't plotting against you - just a thought that has got you caught up and tied up in pain because it's gone too far and muddled your thinking.

Push the film out of your mind :hug:

Maybe find out more about the writer and the other horror stories he wrote, so you can get this film back into perspective as fiction and NOT your reality.

Lots of love to you. Relax...you're safe xxxxx
 
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Thank you, Miss Lunar. I have many neighbors who are friendly. Who shake my hand. Who greet me by name when they see me. I never mention them in my rants here. I only focus on the four or five who are awful and 'are' pure evil like the Castavets. It's seriously compromising my health. My resting heart rate has been over 100 for long periods of time today. I've had several close encounters that have bordered on almost becoming physical altercations with a neighbor. I've got to stop staring at him when we cross paths. Otherwise, I'm going to either explode and attack him or I'm going to have a stroke or heart failure. I can't deal with the raging anger I feel towards this demonic nightmare of a neighbor. And his septic tank wife. I have to stop looking at them entirely. (That's why God invented peripheral vision).《--joke.
I've started praying tonight. I'm really feeling like the Universe may take me soon and I'm scared. I've got to get my heart rate down to 75.
 
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In what way are they "awful" to you, hun?

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It's 3.30 am here in UK...I'm going to have to try and get some sleep. Sorry to not stay online for your reply.

I have two sets of awful neighbours, although there is nothing specific directed at me. One couple drink heavily until the early hours and then set about killing each other. This is their favourite weekend past time. I have rung the police twice before in the past when the woman was making choking noises outside my front door. An ambulance took her away to deal with bruises, cuts and the aftermath of him strangling her during another drunken fight.

The other neighbour has a colourful vocabulary and filthy temper. She allows her dog to foul everywhere and ditches her car, rather than parking it. It makes no difference to her if she has blocked anybody's car in for the day - challenging her only invites a string of foul-mouthed abuse.

My home is my peaceful sanctuary - they can do what they want out there - it can't hurt me.
I have four beautiful statues of angels which sit in the window sills facing out on every side of my home. They guard and protect me and keep us safe.

I feel sorry for these people, to be truthful. Living with so much hatred and anger must be miserable. I don't pay attention to their goings-on unless I have no choice. I have been here for eight years, and no doubt, will still be here long after they've moved on somewhere else.

If you feel that your neighbours have a negative effect on your health and mood, then cleanse your aura with music, such as:




and imagine yourself completely surrounded by a carousel of mirrors. Any bad energy coming from them will be immediately reflected back and leave you unharmed.

I 'put my mirrors on' before I step outside of the door every day!

Please don't live in fear or get anxious about them. They might not be the nicest people on Earth but they can't do you any harm unless you focus on them so much yourself, you start to erode your own well-being.

Lots of love to you :hug: xxx
 
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I didn't reply because I didn't really know what to say. I just feel outnumbered. I have no family besides my mother. And no friends. And no hobbies. So all I've done for years is watch my neighbors. They come and go because it's low end housing. And there's a high turnover rate. Now I've got a bunch of abusive bullies all around me who all gravitate towards each other. Likes attract. And they're old. And home all the time. They use the staff of the apartment building (who should be impartial) to irritate me. They use other neighbors to isolate me. By spreading rumors. They sit in lawn chairs in the middle of the sidewalk in front of the building and block everyone's path. They scream their heads off and laugh out loud all Spring and Summer long. Big, sprawling, raucous freak shows with at least a dozen people in lawn chairs everyday and night. Just yesterday, I was about one ten thousandth of an inch from a physical altercation with the most obnoxious of the bunch. He's always right up in my grill. My resting heart rate was over 100 even hours afterwards. I've had to stay inside all day today - I feel so bad I don't want to go outside. The drugs are making me feel worse. But I can't sleep without them. So I'm trapped. For now.
 
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