- Nov 8, 2019
So me and my husband both have undiagnosed BPD. It has taken me years to put the pieces together. The situation is absolutely unbearable. I don’t know what to think/feel anymore. I am trying to get help. None of the DBT clinics are getting back to me (in Tampa Florida). I’m trying to do things on my own in the meantime but my BPD husband is constantly triggering me by violating me and completely unaware that he has the same thing going on. When I try to work on things he blows me off and throws a fit. I feel like exploding. I’m pissed. Resentful. He’s driving me crazy. I want us to get help. I want to get better. I can’t do this alone. Need help.