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gurl2134

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Keep having these thoughts that I’m only with my boyfriend because I’m scared to end the relationship or because I am comfortable in the relationship. I’m not getting upset thinking about not being with him. I’m scared I don’t want to loose him. I don’t want to be with out him. I get anxiety thinking about not being with him. I’ve never been one to end a relationship, and if I did I miss them and go back to them. I was scared last night about him wanting to end things with me, so I guess that means I do care. I need some validation. I always get upset when he doesn’t talk to me. So that answers my question. I just always need confirmation and validation.
 
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Mongster

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Do you think about how he might feel when he's without you?
 
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Mongster

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It may not be as intense as your feelings, but if he's still with you, you obviously mean lots to him
 
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Mongster

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And if you only need him to validate your 'worth', I would suggest you look deeper into what may be lacking in your life... possibly some parental issues. I know that sounds hackneyed, but that is, unfortunately the cause much of the time
 
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Worriedyin

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What do you mean by needing validation?
 
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