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Urgent help please I’m having a breakdown



Well-known member
Jul 19, 2019
United Kingdon
I found out that my psychiatric nurse of 3 years lied to his manager and told her that I made suggestive comments to him when I didn’t. We weren’t allowed to see each other anymore because of this eventhough he made subtle hints and flirtatious remarks that he had feelings for me - not the other way round!

why ... did he do this to me?

I ran up to him today and he walked away saying sorry I can’t speak I’m not allowed

I’ve got nothing to live for anymore. Yes I do love him but I never told him this especially at the time so why would he lie? He said he would never abandon me

did he do this to get rid of me?
please help I need help I’m falling apart
Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

Well-known member
Forum Guide
Apr 9, 2011
Magical fairy wonderland xxxx
im so sorry this has happened
you must be really confused

its not quite the same but my cpn of 3 years promised she wouldn't leave and then left to go work somewhere else a few weeks later I was distraught at the time and she didn't even say goodbye
I felt completely abandoned

do you have anyone who could help you speak out about this to get your point of view across?
maybe a MH advocate could help

I hope you start to feel better soon
love Lu xxx


Well-known member
Jul 8, 2019
hi sweetie I knew he would do this to you
it goes with the territory
when a member of staff crosses the boundaries

I think Fairys idea of getting an advocate is a good one
if you look up Pohwer on the internet
they will hopefully get you some leads

I'm just glad things had not gone further between him and you

:hug5: :loveshower:✨