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I'm in love with someone but he told me there's no chance of us being together. My heart is aching (because it makes me feel unhappy), I can't sleep at night, and I'm feeling high/down at the moment. I have bipolar disorder. It's situations like this that make me not have a boyfriend because my brain gets ill when I fall in love with someone. Hope this makes some sort of sense. Can anyone relate to this?
 
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Okay, so has anyone been in love with someone who didn't love them back?
 
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Okay, so has anyone been in love with someone who didn't love them back?
It would be wrong to say love but let's say some people I wanted did not want me back.It's not a nice situation to be in.. Depending on personality if you are a proud person,your ego is hurt but it happens and when someone doesn't want or love your there is indeed little to do to change that.
 
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Okay, so has anyone been in love with someone who didn't love them back?
I was and it hurt like hell - took me about 10 years - him leaving the country and severing every single possible contact point with me to start the grieving process. I lived in hope and wasted a hell of a lot of time on him - but I think you need to grieve it as you would any loss.

My heart goes out to you - wouldn't want to be in that situation again. :hug:
 
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if you are a proud person,your ego is hurt but it happens and when someone doesn't want or love your there is indeed little to do to change that.
I would say I'm an emotional person and probably needy as well. I have accepted the situation, just need my heart to get mended now :cry:
 
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but I think you need to grieve it as you would any loss.
My heart goes out to you - wouldn't want to be in that situation again. :hug:
thanks for your words of experience, your situation sounds terrible compared to mine!! I hope your find happiness soon :flowers:
 
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