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Trouble in Paradise 2

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gurl2134

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I know I said in my last post about that my boyfriend was accused of cheating. The whole situation is causing me so much stress and anxiety. The only way I feel that my pain and anxiety would stop is if I end things with him. That really scared me and upsets me, I don’t want to loose him or end things between us. I just want things to go back to normal. I feel like I am under a dark cloud, and I can’t get out of it. I hate how this is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend, it makes me want to cry. What do you guys think of all this?
 
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Who accused him of cheating? :hug:

Whether you end the relationship depends on what YOU want to do, not what other people not involved want you to do :hug:
 
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My friend did, but there’s no proof, and your right it’s my decision in the end but I keep trying to make everyone happy
 
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if there is no proof that says a lot ,forgive me for asking but could your friend be trying to cause trouble?
im sorry for asking but I experienced something similar before
maybe have a conversation with him about it all ,see what he says?
I really hope it works out love Lu x
 
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I know I said in my last post about that my boyfriend was accused of cheating. The whole situation is causing me so much stress and anxiety. The only way I feel that my pain and anxiety would stop is if I end things with him. That really scared me and upsets me, I don’t want to loose him or end things between us. I just want things to go back to normal. I feel like I am under a dark cloud, and I can’t get out of it. I hate how this is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend, it makes me want to cry. What do you guys think of all this?
Before the accusation, how were the two of you getting along? Were there warning signs that your boyfriend was unhappy with you? If not, then don't let someone else's suspicions interfere in your relationship.
 
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I would’ve never guessed that he was cheating. I mean there were times
Where I questioned if something seemed fishy, but I never went to the thought that he cheated on me.
 
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gurl2134

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if there is no proof that says a lot ,forgive me for asking but could your friend be trying to cause trouble?
im sorry for asking but I experienced something similar before
maybe have a conversation with him about it all ,see what he says?
I really hope it works out love Lu x
Aww thank you, ya I mean there was some fishy behavior but a lot of it is hear say
 
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