Transference ? feels like a mess now. Wish I had kept my mouth shut!

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michelle11

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I've never cried before so don't know whats wrong with me. Maybe he thinks I'm strange like he can't break me ?
 
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MissD

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Personally transference in my opinion is questionable, how about it being a simple case of just being human? Therapy is unnatural but a bond between two people is natural.
 
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rvalencia72

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my therapist keep asking me what feelings I have towards him. I always say I don't know or nothing. Anyway I have liked him since our first meeting he is very attractive gorgeous eyes and lips. I have tried to keep my feelings a secret and make sure my body langauge doesn't give my feelings away. I have tried to stop myself feeling anything for him I know it's wrong. I just feel a connection between us especially when he stares at me I just feel something.

Anyway today he asked me and it took a while but i ended up telling him I thought he was hot and attractive. He was fine about it and he said he felt something . He said it was all ok provided we didn't act on anything. It was ok to explore the feelings. I wish I hadn't said anything. I told him that I didn't want him to feel awkward and he said I don't feel awkward I feel something ?

I told him my fears about therapy ending because of the situation and he promised it wouldn't he thanked me for being honest.

I feel really stupid he did talk about transference but I don't really know much about it.

Anyway he is stuck in my head now it's so annoying. Wish I had kept my big mouth shut. He said it would be useful, im wondering how that can be. Wrestling with my feeling for him is driving me nuts. Being bipolar I will probably not feel anything for him next week as my feelings can turn off and on a bit.
 
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