It seems a lot of advice aimed at those with social issues is aimed at those who have issues in terms of approaching new people, making conversation etc. That's not my problem though. I don't have any issue with approaching people and talking to them. The problem is that nothing ever seems to click. Basically I don't have ANY close friends. I know people who seem to be collecting phone numbers almost at ease but I get the impression that people I speak to couldn't care less if they ever met me again. Like I said, it's not a problem with approaching or talking to people so it must be some kind of personality thing that doesn't endear me to people. The sort of thing I really need is for someone who can help me by saying 'that didn't come across too well' or 'have you thought about trying this in your approach'. Any suggestions?