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angelflower

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Angelflower if someone else is at risk you really need to tell them. No matter how you are suffering it is not ok to hurt anyone else. You must act to protect them and tell them your plans.
Sorry to be blunt
You have no need to apologise lovely. I don't want to tell them because I don't want it to interfere with my weekend with my daughter. I don't think I would tell them anyway. I am feeling very destructive.
 
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claude

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You have no need to apologise lovely. I don't want to tell them because I don't want it to interfere with my weekend with my daughter. I don't think I would tell them anyway. I am feeling very destructive.
Why do you want to hurt someone?
I do hope you can enjoy time with your daughter but I still think the priority lies with protecting whoever you are currently a risk towards
 
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angelflower

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Why do you want to hurt someone?
I do hope you can enjoy time with your daughter but I still think the priority lies with protecting whoever you are currently a risk towards
I am feeling really angry towards a certain person in my life.
 
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angelflower

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I'm sorry to hear that. What has made you feel so angry?
I hate him that he has what I can't have. And that he lied about something which was really important to me.
 
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claude

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Ok. Do you think there is a reason you are holding onto this anger? Do you think you would ne happier if you let it go and focused on yourself and things that are inside your control? You cannot change the past. If we all hurt those who had wronged us then the human race would go extinct in a heartbeat
 
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angelflower

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Ok. Do you think there is a reason you are holding onto this anger? Do you think you would ne happier if you let it go and focused on yourself and things that are inside your control? You cannot change the past. If we all hurt those who had wronged us then the human race would go extinct in a heartbeat
I just want to destroy him.
 
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claude

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I just want to destroy him.
In doing so you would not just destroy him. You would destroy people that you love. The damage you would cause to your children and to all those around you if you were to act on this destructive impulse would be massive.

You have a duty to control your destructive impulses just like we all do. If you cannot control yourself, you must inform authorities of the risk
 
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angelflower

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In doing so you would not just destroy him. You would destroy people that you love. The damage you would cause to your children and to all those around you if you were to act on this destructive impulse would be massive.

You have a duty to control your destructive impulses just like we all do. If you cannot control yourself, you must inform authorities of the risk

I can understand why you're saying what you're saying. I can't say to authorities any more than I have. I'm not sure I want them to know. I'm not sure I want them to stop me. I'm not going to say any more on here. Thanks for trying. I'm sorry if I've upset anyone. It's not been my attention. I was talking about how I was feeling, but didn't mean to say so much.
 
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claude

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My thoughts are with you angelflower. I believe you have it in you to do the right thing and avoid violence. I think you are overwhelmed with these angry emotions and I don't doubt that is hard. I hope that very soon you are able to find more of a sense of peace in yourself and accept that you have suffered but that you can still lead a good life:hug:
Good luck and keep posting if it helps. Sorry if I pushed too hard, I only wanted to help with your situation
 
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angelflower

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My thoughts are with you angelflower. I believe you have it in you to do the right thing and avoid violence. I think you are overwhelmed with these angry emotions and I don't doubt that is hard. I hope that very soon you are able to find more of a sense of peace in yourself and accept that you have suffered but that you can still lead a good life:hug:
Good luck and keep posting if it helps. Sorry if I pushed too hard, I only wanted to help with your situation
You have nothing to apologise for. Hubby has just text me about plans to meet up tomoz...
 
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