- Mar 2, 2019
I’m stressed that bf and I will have trouble living together just because he said he thinks my living room rug is too colorful for his taste and we should choose a new one for our new place. He is super particular which I find a bit difficult at times but I think it’s mostly because I think : is this rude of him? Is this a red flag? And I worry over small things like this. When really like I’m cool with a different rug; I want him to like our space. I might put mine in the spare bedroom. I just think my parents might not like that I let him have his way so much/ that if I always give in I’m being weak. But like I’d rather live with bf than live alone with my rug? . So yeah there’s that. I know there are other things like he isn’t okay having a cat like ever and I love cats. But again like it’s okay. I won’t die over not having a cat. I want to make him happy without being a total welcome mat but I find that a hard balance. I’m a people pleaser but I also haven’t really been so close to someone outside family. And he and I are quite different. But yeah the lease is signed so I guess this year will be a real learning experience for us both!