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cant_carry_on
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I thought that things were getting better with my friend and we were moving on from things that had happened and were beginning to return to normal. We were due to go and stay with a friend next week to get away from her parents and have a good time and forget the stresses at home.
Well how wrong was I , last night she came into the room and said that she needs time away from me, she's going away on her own and I should go stay with my parents while she has time to sort her head out and decide what she wants. This has come from no where for me as I thought everything was sorted.
We are supposed to be moving into a rented house together soon and now she decides to spring on me that she doesn't think we should live with each other and we need time apart. She doesn't know whats happening with the friendship.
After hours of arguing and not getting anywhere I left and am now at a friends while I calmed down and gave her time to calm down and think things through. I rang her to see what was happening and what had been decided only for her to say I have given up on the friendship and don't believe her anymore.
I've asked her to work out whats happening so that I can make plans as to what I'm going to do yet she just shouted at me that i've already decided I don't want to be friends anymore.
I'm trying to get my life back on track, so suggested we meet and sit down and have a chat about things but she doesn't want to do that. What more can I do to try and save anything from this.
I can't be left in limbo waiting for her to decide what she wants to do. I need to live my life aswell worry about how my depression is affecting me not try and make everyone else happy.
I can't do this anymore. I need it all to end to escape from it all.
Well how wrong was I , last night she came into the room and said that she needs time away from me, she's going away on her own and I should go stay with my parents while she has time to sort her head out and decide what she wants. This has come from no where for me as I thought everything was sorted.
We are supposed to be moving into a rented house together soon and now she decides to spring on me that she doesn't think we should live with each other and we need time apart. She doesn't know whats happening with the friendship.
After hours of arguing and not getting anywhere I left and am now at a friends while I calmed down and gave her time to calm down and think things through. I rang her to see what was happening and what had been decided only for her to say I have given up on the friendship and don't believe her anymore.
I've asked her to work out whats happening so that I can make plans as to what I'm going to do yet she just shouted at me that i've already decided I don't want to be friends anymore.
I'm trying to get my life back on track, so suggested we meet and sit down and have a chat about things but she doesn't want to do that. What more can I do to try and save anything from this.
I can't be left in limbo waiting for her to decide what she wants to do. I need to live my life aswell worry about how my depression is affecting me not try and make everyone else happy.
I can't do this anymore. I need it all to end to escape from it all.