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supermarket and schitzoprenia

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you know how at supermarket the expensive items they're hoping to sell are on shelves at eye level where they'll catch the eye whilst the cheap versions are in a corner or at the bottom, if like me you get flustered by a crowded supermarket and say some child is going off like a piercing siren, it's hard to search the shelves, you tend to pick up more expensive versions

today i bought some pasteurised milk for my neighbour from tescos, it's only when i got home i found i'd brought the organic version twice as much, it caught me eye, it looked the same, all intentionally planned by some tesco marketing expert

I wonder if i can argue it as extra cost of disability for pip and whether the dwp will listen

I said at the dla tribunal that i find the queue difficult and would rather go to the corner shop, since the dla has been cut by inflation

The queue the strong can bend the rules to go first and people don't dare say anything if your weak and make some small mistake you get a mouthful of abuse
 
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I'm autistic and read everything pretty much literally. The problem I have with supermarkets is often the total mess the shelves are in with the offers and goods all in the wrong place. We understand people move stuff about but so often I have arrived at a till with something that isn't under offer like I thought. Most stores will be helpful to put it right - actually I just noticed reading again that this was in Tesco - this is the store where I have most problems I think. What you say about deliberate planning may be true as I remember spotting something akin to this last summer where the offers didn't make sense, being out of place and I took time to rearrange the whole affair, something else I cannot help but do.
 
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Go to the supermarket to avoid people I am scared of.
 
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it can be overwhelming i agree. Sometimes i like it though cause i feel like i have a purpose and with the new automatic checkouts i can buy ice-cream without having to look anyone in the eye

maybe you can argue you struggle to control your finances, good luck! i think that bit is probably more about people who spend all their benefits in a day rather than buy organic milk though.

this is one of my favourite clash songs, you made me think go it, hope you like it too xx
 
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I'm autistic and read everything pretty much literally. The problem I have with supermarkets is often the total mess the shelves are in with the offers and goods all in the wrong place. We understand people move stuff about but so often I have arrived at a till with something that isn't under offer like I thought. Most stores will be helpful to put it right - actually I just noticed reading again that this was in Tesco - this is the store where I have most problems I think. What you say about deliberate planning may be true as I remember spotting something akin to this last summer where the offers didn't make sense, being out of place and I took time to rearrange the whole affair, something else I cannot help but do.
i have this thing with autistic when i was young autism diagnoseses weren't used then there came in aspergers and autism, i don't know what the dwp make of such diagnoses
 
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i do big shops online and get them delivered :hug:

it saves me stacks of $ and also i loathe supermarkets with a passion, always have.
 
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i shop on line if i spend more than 100 i get free delivery from sainsburys, once a month i do a big shop i also go to the store to see the bargains and get fresh food, everything i buy if i use this card appears on line
 
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i shop on line if i spend more than 100 i get free delivery from sainsburys, once a month i do a big shop i also go to the store to see the bargains and get fresh food, everything i buy if i use this card appears on line
yeah its awesome I love it; if only it had been around when I was a single career mum

maybe it would've stopped me Losing My Mind :(

I truly loathe supermarket shopping, just hate it, almost phobic.
 
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I like the supermarket but i do most of my shopping online. it takes the hassle out of it. I start my next shop as soon as one has been delivered, and spend the next two weeks refining my order.

Peanut butter or honey? decisions desicions :D
 
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I always think that it's the most unnatural thing in the world to be TRAPPED
With people looking at food your buying and the stress of putting it all in bags.
I cannot handle it.
Tesco and asda to home deliveries for 1 pound
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I shop online as well. I usually get a delivery every ten days. The only thing I dislike is that the pickers are not as fussy as me when it comes to fruit. I always seem to end up with bruised apples when I chance it online.
 
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I use Coles Online downunder and it depends on the Source store

at my last address the produce was always the Absolute Freshest because it was a massive store

now ive moved it comes from a smaller less busy store, not so much.

I buy the Big Stuff that I loathe carrying myself, cat biscuits, drinks, bulk rice etc. It saves so much money and hassle it pays for itself.
 
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my neighbour asked me to go to the supermarket for her, i said can't your church help, i'd been to the butchers that was enough shopping for the day without walking down a crowded high street to sainsburys and walking back to the bus stop with a heavy rucksack

On line shops from sainsburys umless you buy a lot theres delivery fees, theres also something to be said for actually seeing things
 
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my neighbour asked me to go to the supermarket for her, i said can't your church help, i'd been to the butchers that was enough shopping for the day without walking down a crowded high street to sainsburys and walking back to the bus stop with a heavy rucksack

On line shops from sainsburys umless you buy a lot theres delivery fees, theres also something to be said for actually seeing things
yeah but youre a man

a lot of women find supermarket shopping physically demanding too. :(

even steering a trolley around takes an upper body strength some of us just don't have.
 
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i have this thing with autistic when i was young autism diagnoseses weren't used then there came in aspergers and autism, i don't know what the dwp make of such diagnoses
Not sure what you mean by this. One of the strangest things you see in forms is 'when did your condition begin?' er, we are born like this, of course - what do DWP make of such diagnoses? - I have other disabilities and so benefits are for each one, as an example I have 2 hours per day support which I receive £77pw but have to then pay the community support people that whole amount, we all have to do this. DWP contribute to my other problems in the form of DLA. As far as I am aware, Asperger Syndrome became a recognised condition in 1994. High-functioning autism or HFA which I have, I could not tell you but it makes no difference, the fact is that you come into this world with it, It will be recognised in childhood or later on, as in a lot of cases now, when you are adult.
 
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