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Leon
Guest
Hello everyone,
I'm new to the forum, and wanted to sound off about my predicament.
I'm badly suffering from depression bought on by a house purchase which has turned into a nightmare. The house was in need of renovation, and I badly misjudged how much and am now in financial dire straits, and am now living in chaos.
I am a 47 year old single dad on a low wage, and my daughter is 20. My daughter is living with her boyfriends family due to the upheaval, and I feel that I have let her down badly
My depression is making me indecisive and I'm making poor decisions which are making things worse.
I feel totally trapped. I want to sell the house, and move back with my parents, but don't know what my daughter would do. There are issues with her and my mother, and it would be stressful to force them to live together. The house is proving to be a financial drain, and I'm worried that I won't be able to manage.
I'm scared for me and for my daughter.
I'm having suicidal thoughts, and am in so much pain, but know that my daughter needs me, so it's not an option - thankfully!
Though I know the reasons I'm beating myself up for making what seems like a disastrous decision to buy the house.
I'm new to the forum, and wanted to sound off about my predicament.
I'm badly suffering from depression bought on by a house purchase which has turned into a nightmare. The house was in need of renovation, and I badly misjudged how much and am now in financial dire straits, and am now living in chaos.
I am a 47 year old single dad on a low wage, and my daughter is 20. My daughter is living with her boyfriends family due to the upheaval, and I feel that I have let her down badly
My depression is making me indecisive and I'm making poor decisions which are making things worse.
I feel totally trapped. I want to sell the house, and move back with my parents, but don't know what my daughter would do. There are issues with her and my mother, and it would be stressful to force them to live together. The house is proving to be a financial drain, and I'm worried that I won't be able to manage.
I'm scared for me and for my daughter.
I'm having suicidal thoughts, and am in so much pain, but know that my daughter needs me, so it's not an option - thankfully!
Though I know the reasons I'm beating myself up for making what seems like a disastrous decision to buy the house.