Struggling tonight, trying not to text an ex.

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I've felt rough today with IBS but I didn't text him. Yuk, why give my power away.
 
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n yeah I get hypnotised in relationships
and lose sight of the fact
that I deserve better

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Exactly. I had a bad night with IBS. But I'm sure it's better for me to post on the forum than get an empty ridiculous answer from someone who clearly doesn't want to know.

The IBS symptoms are ok ish now, but I'm worn out.

I have had my fare share of struggling on at work with IBS, but as I'm inbetween jobs awaiting my custom made artificial eye, I shall rest today.

I hope you all have a good day. Love to you all.❤❤❤
 
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good job Fancyharm !
I get alot of physical problems like that as well

so glad im past contacting an ex to help me deal with it
I have done plenty of that !

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Well unfortunately I have struggled today with IBS. Also that dick has texted me. Why he bothered I don't know because I have sent him next to nothing and he very rarely replies to that. Plus I use emoji now if I do give in.

He is just really boring me and I am finding more that I am beginning to realise how cruel he has been to me the way he has lead me on.

I think I have said I have cooled it before. That seemed to encourage him to engage with me more, I hope that doesn't happen this time. I do not need it and I do not want it, it being him engaging with me more.

Do you know what, why does he feel he needs to act upon me cooling it with him. Does feeling pushed away seem safe to him?????? Really weird and I really do hope he goes away for good when I cool it this time. I have realised what a prick he is.

Hopefully tomorrow my IBS will be better, I'm going to read my positive affirmations before bed.

Love to you all xxxxxx
 
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Thank you. I wouldn't be able to if I didn't have this forum and it's members.

I will succeed. ❤❤❤❤❤
 
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I'm really beginning to hate texting him back. Whatever made me get into such a disappointing situation with him is anyone's guess.

Thankfully I will remember this forever and it will not happen again.👍👍👍👍👍👍
 
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maybe its like a cat toying with a mouse
and we dont want to be the mouse

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I don't know what it is. But it won't happen to me again.

The next time I will realise that people make advances and encouragement and they don't always mean it.

Just eaten. Let's hope the IBS stays at bay.
 
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I get IBS sometimes
and I wonder how it links sometimes to my anxiety

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I wonder if it links to my anxiety too. Who knows. I just get tired of working it out sometimes.

Well I've not been directly awkward in my replies to the text messages received from the equicavator but my replies have been discouraging. As I thought, he is sending more messages than normal. So I think I will just have to ignore him.

He is so negative, if you are going to send a text, why not just be positive it friendly? Surely it beats being negative. Not that it matters as I just don't care now. His increase in messages is just putting me off even more.
 
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I usually find some way to block the person
if they are persistent like that
like putting their email in spam for instance
or using a phone blocking service

because any reply from you
he might take as ' encouragement '
even if its a negative response
he will think ' oh at least I'm getting a response '

not that I have done this with all my exes,
just if there is persistence after you split up

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You are right. But I just have to be careful. It's a long story. It will be ok.

I think it's under control now.

I will sort myself out. It just takes time. I am getting there.

The forum has helped me so much and I am grateful.
 
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Thank you Zoe1.

I can see light at the end of the tunnel now.

I'm at a low point in life at the moment but that will be changing in a couple of months. Thanks to the forum and it's members for the help. I couldn't have done it on my own. XxxxX
 
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thats great Fancyharms

people have done the same for me
when I was in relationships that I had got lost in

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