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Struggling tonight, trying not to text an ex.

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Fancyharm

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Struggling tonight. I want to text the ex but I know it's wrong. I've posted in the 'People' forum but I'm scared nobody will see my post and I need a bit of support.
 
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Hi, thanks. Good to.know you are there. I am just at a low point.

I have wondered if my low points are a trigger into contacting him. Somehow I believe he can make me feel like the low point has gone. I think I have worked that out tonight.

Replacement therapy in the form of posting here is what is happening. I am seeking to replace him.

That is a positive thing. The forum has helped me, I can see a way out.

Also I.must learn to live with low points, not try to escape them by texting him.
 
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low points suck :grouphug: :sorry:

replacing him is good (y):loveshower:

think of him like a broken computer, you wouldn't keep trying to make a broke computer work just on the offchance that it might work :grouphug:
 
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Broken computer, I can see that. That's true.

God, that's so good. Wow.
 
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Also I am very tired. I was awake from midnight to 4 am. My neighbour decided to hold a pre hen party do and was shouting and singing with her mates until a taxi collected them for the airport at 4 am. I cannot stand her, she is not nice and very inconsiderate. She lives in the middle of a terrace. She should know better.
 
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Thank you, I am too good. It's taken a lot of getting into my head. I really hope I manage to keep away this time.

I want to try my best and the help on here is so good for me.

Broken computer and keeping trying to make it work is brilliant.
 
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*plays loud music and lots of noise around Fancyharm's neighbour 24/7 until she gets the idea that she has to be considerate* :loveshower:
 
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True again. Yes she is horrible. The landlord is a dick too. If I'm in the garden and she is on the phone or talking then I know every bit of the conversation.

I knew about the hen do as she shouted out of the window to a neighbour boasting that it was going to be a loud night.

Over the bank holiday she had a new boyfriend staying. It was quite funny listening to her trying to keep her big mouth under control. He seemed like a nice quiet chap. She starts so many sentences with d'you know what, so I just kept putting d'oh know what at the beginning of what I was saying to my friend! She is so argumentative, even with this nice chap she was using the wrong time.
 
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I should have taped her and played it when her new boyfriend was there.

Didn't think of that.
 
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I was going to wash my hair tonight, but I'm so tired and dissapointed that my neighbour acts so irresponsibly.

And I am enjoying just being able to share my thoughts with you.

That loss of sleep has messed me up all day.
 
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Off to bed now. Thanks for your support. I wonder if thete is a pattern forming regarding this desire to text the ex. Perhaps tomorrow night will be different.
 
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