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Struggling to cope with end of relationship

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VerySadgirl

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My partner ended out 23 year relationship out the blue. I'm beyond gutted, totally floored. I can't eat, sleep and everything seems pointless. All my hopes and dreams are gone. I'm so hurt he didn't talk things through, didn't give me a chance. He wanted to be able to just look after himself and apparently has felt he has to look after me for years after I lost my mum at aged 19 and dad two years later. I get a bit anxiety and he wants to not to have to deal with it. I really feel we could have worked on things and feel awful he didn't give me the chance. He still had his parents and brother and I'm feeling totally alone. He gets the future he wants and all I wanted is gone. I'm just so sad we were together when we were 17 and I'm 41 now.
 
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Kerome

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Oww verysadgirl, that’s tough to take. Breakups can be really painful. I hope you feel better...
 
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