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Stressed, depressed, and in a mess! Help please

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Malfoy 13

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Not sure where to post this but I really need some advice this is stressing me out I'm not sure how to handle the situation.

Last year my mother and I babysat our neighbor's 9 year daughter. after she got off the bus she would come here. In exchange her dad would take us to the store. No big deal. I didn't see any problems with it.

Well now I have a car, I don't need rides. And the girls Aunt moved in so the kid doesn't need a babysitter any more. But the kid still want to come over and play and hang out. Almost every day. She has become very clingy doesn't respect personal space , last time she was here she basically tried to sit in my lap. I told her to stop and got up and left the room.

her dad and her Aunt don't see any problems with her coming over.
I was walking her home and one neighbor accused me of trying to touch her butt. Which I would never do

even though we are never alone together my mother is always in the living room with us and the front door is always open. nothing stops her from saying I tried to do something. And that scares me. Plus It's not normal that a 10 year old girl want to hangout with a 34 guy and his 70 old old mother.
Im stressed out of my mind and don't know how to handle this.......
 
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Hi

As far as I can see you need to protect yourself. These allegations are serious as I’m sure you know and could ruin your life. I know it’s hard but you have to break contact with her.

On the other hand warning signals are going off in my head that someone else is either directly abusing her to give her the idea m, or manipulating her into saying these things. I would report that to the authorities. You can do so anonymously
 
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Malfoy 13

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No she has never accused me of any. It was a someone in another apt who show me walking her home.
But I am worried if she ever gets mad at me nothing to stop her from saying bad things about me.
 
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Malfoy 13

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Just an update she no longer comes over I told her dad all of my concerns. And told she she can't come over without him or the aunt since then I haven't seen them in about January
 
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