My son whom I have been supporting financially has had police problems and past mental hospitalizations. Now his medication is being monitored daily. He seems to be doing better; however, he seems to be unable to consistently keep himself clean and keeps saying he is going to do things he does not do. For a long time he has stated that he will get a job or apply for government funding for having a disability, but he does not complete those processes. I have discussed this with him but I am not sure it is doing any good. His father says he will help him apply for the funding and give him other help when he visits him for my son;'s upcoming court date, but I am sad that my son cannot seem to do much on his own. He seems to mostly talk about hiking as his activity now, whereas he has a history of being a standout in school and having his own business. He has good skills from school but says he plans to get a job washing dishes. Should I be angry at him for doing so little on his own and planning so little? What can I do to change the situation, or should I try?