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Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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when i say the following i swear im not trying to get attention and for people to list my good points x

i just don't understand why people would like me and some people on here seem to
im genuinely baffled

i mean i am nothing
im a silly little girl with half a brain ,thick stupid dumb and boring

when people like me it confuses me as there is nothing to like
i lead the most boring lifestyle and i have had no life

how can clever /gorgeous/special people like me
i don't understand x

and i DON'T want compliments i just don't get it
im just little old Lu who spends her life with her dog and on a forum! xx
 
Urban Hermit

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As you asked not to have all your good points listed I won't .... Please just remember the other list I sent you if you're not sure why..... Xxxxx
 
daffy

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I think the reason is ive never seen you post anything harsh about anyone on the forum. I must admit sometimes I’m a bit critical and opinionated of things and should learn to moderate myself more.
 
Lunar Lady

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How can you feel worthless when you make so many other people feel better?

Without stepping out of your own home, you're reaching across the world with love and understanding and compassion.

You project a warm and caring personality just by typing on a screen...very few people can do that.

You're not leading a little and insignificant life - right now, you're in the chrysalis stage, building up to stretching those beautiful wings and flying.

We all love you and your dog adores you. I suspect you couldn't be cruel, selfish, nasty or mean if you tried...you're a great person.

:hug: Ignore those thoughts and doubts...you're amazing. xx
 
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Indeed, if you have 28500+ posts and from what I've seen always treating everyone with compassion and caring then you are doing good for the world, and isn't that objectively what makes a good person and by extension one that people like to be around?

Just look at your own tagline -- very encouraging and sweet:
"its nice to be important ,but its more important to be nice
xxxx you count ,you matter ,you are important (I promise) "
 
Fairy Lucretia

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thank you so much everyone
i have so many wobbles late at night when i can't sleep
thank you for reassuring me xx
 
Fairy Lucretia

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How can you feel worthless when you make so many other people feel better?

Without stepping out of your own home, you're reaching across the world with love and understanding and compassion.

You project a warm and caring personality just by typing on a screen...very few people can do that.

You're not leading a little and insignificant life - right now, you're in the chrysalis stage, building up to stretching those beautiful wings and flying.

We all love you and your dog adores you. I suspect you couldn't be cruel, selfish, nasty or mean if you tried...you're a great person.

:hug: Ignore those thoughts and doubts...you're amazing. xx
this is one of THE nicest things anybody has EVER said to me
thank you for making me good cry
love Lu xx
 
Parayana

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Lu, hun,

People like you because you are a kind, genuine, caring person.

As for a boring lifestyle, well I had an exciting one when I was younger and it's over rated, booze, drugs, raves and all that. I prefer my boring lifestyle of video games, meditation and reading, some days, however I don't talk to anyone except the staff in he super market. I wish I'd found my "boring" life sooner at least then I wouldn't have hoovered all that amphet up my nose and ended up with Schizophrenia.

In your last PM to me you were more concerned about my welfare than your own which shows genuine compassion and understanding.

Lu. you are downright lovely and well loved on this forum.
 
Parayana

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As it's you that's asking I will make an effort to come on here more often. :)

It's just that many of my old friends on here are gone except you hun. Oh well time to make some new buddies. :D

Take care Lu and PM or get in touch any other way if you need me. XXX.
 
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