- Jun 1, 2019
Hi guys , this is my first ever post so not sure if it's even in the right place but I could really use some advice and opinions on my situation . I just got into a new relationship at the beginning of the year , we get on pretty well and he's very sweet to me but one issue I'm having is that he doesn't seem to listen when I tell him no or I can't do something . I haven't been completely open with him about my anxiety and depression but I have mentioned how certain situations cause me anxiety and make me very uncomfortable , he says he understands but then he keeps forcing the issue for me to go places like out to dinner or go to events with him ,even with sex he forces the issue .Recently I've had a lack of sex drive due to depression so I told him I was stressed out about a few things and wasn't in the mood but he keeps forcing himself on me until I give in and change my mind , I've only said no to his advances maybe 3 or 4 times and he kept pushing until he got his own way so now I don't even say no . It's really bothering because I'm starting to feel bad or that I've let him down if I don't push through the anxiety and go to these places or give in any time he wants sex . It's got to the point where I've been avoiding seeing him . Am I wrong to be bothered by this ? Any advice on what I could do to help the situation would be great !