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My sister told me by email she is blocking me from connecting with her. This is all so silly just because I have a problem with anxiety and feel panicky when people are going to come here including her. She didn't understand the way I am. Has she tried? No so as Doris Day sang What ever will be will be the furture not ours to see. I'm sick sick sick of being hurt by people especially my so called family. Don't want to say bad things about them but really they are useless. I keep hanging on but think it's useless really. Everyday is hell for me. Tell me is this my fault that I got this way? Is it my fault that I come from a family of drug addicts and alcoholics? Is it my fault I witnessed horrible things in my family? Is it my fault I was emotionally abused. Is it my fault I saw my father beat my mother and beat my brother? Is it my fault I was born? I'm sick of it all now all I have is 2 sisters who don't understand and don't care. Sorry, I'm very upset but you know what? What goes around comes around I really pity them. You are my friends, please don't advise me to have therapy been down that road too many times I'm done with it.😪
 
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How hurtful for your sister to block you for having anxiety. I am so sorry, ladyfair. I know how this feels because my sister did not want to know me when I told her I had social anxiety in response to her complaining I never attended family gatherings.

It really hurts when our families do not understand us. I know how hard you have tried to teach your sister about anxiety. It is a failure on her part to not try to understand. Sometimes I think it is easier to not have contact with family if they only hurt us.
 
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How hurtful for your sister to block you for having anxiety. I am so sorry, ladyfair. I know how this feels because my sister did not want to know me when I told her I had social anxiety in response to her complaining I never attended family gatherings.

It really hurts when our families do not understand us. I know how hard you have tried to teach your sister about anxiety. It is a failure on her part to not try to understand. Sometimes I think it is easier to not have contact with family if they only hurt us.
Hi Yes maybe it is better to stay away from people who hurt us even family. I'm sorry your sister hurt you like that. Thank you for your response🌹
 
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I can relate to your post Ladyfair. I've got pretty bad anxiety around people including family. A month ago I got an email from one brother saying "I'm done with you" I guess from not talking to him the past couple years. Truth is I don't like talking with him, though we were closer in the past. He has mental health issues also, maybe that's partly why he was upset. Anyway I'd just feel like he'd put me down, with smartass comments, as he's done before. Guess I'm quite sensitive to that even if it doesn't show. These days I don't really want to talk to anybody I know even though isolation has its price too. I learned this anxiety from family, who can be critical and judgemental.

Anyway, your post resonated with me.
 
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Hi.

Its very mean of her to do that to you, its so hurtful when family do this to you, she should be ashamed of her actions.
You have been through so much !
I have no contact with my brother as he does not care about me ,and i dont miss him, i never want to see him again
 
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Hi.

Its very mean of her to do that to you, its so hurtful when family do this to you, she should be ashamed of her actions.
You have been through so much !
I have no contact with my brother as he does not care about me ,and i dont miss him, i never want to see him again
I'm sorry hillman I think some people are more damaged than we are.
 
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