Sex... not sex...

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Bdp_moonlight

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So.... before get merry I used to have a social life that includes rock, sex with strangers, flirting with guys and dump them for fun... alcohol... but... now... nothing.... can't drink... no more sex... my husband wants.. but I don't

What's is wrong with me?
 
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I don't know. Maybe you are low in mood? That can affect our sex drives. CAn you tell us more about yourself?
 
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I don't know. Maybe you are low in mood? That can affect our sex drives. CAn you tell us more about yourself?
Sure.... for some reason my husband compares me with his exs... and it cuts all sex mood... but I have no mood for masturbation either....

And of course he doesn't know about my past and adventures.... wish I could back on time and have some fun again...
 
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Are you happy in your marriage? Maybe that is the problem and you both need to sit down and discuss your feelings about each other? Does he take you out or you take him out for a good time, say the theatre or whatever else? Do you do things together that interest you both? I think you need to ask a lot of these questions and get working at your relationship with each other.
 
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Sure.... for some reason my husband compares me with his exs... and it cuts all sex mood... but I have no mood for masturbation either...

And of course he doesn't know about my past and adventures.... wish I could back on time and have some fun again...
Maybe your sex life isn't as fun as what it used to be? To wish to go back in time to have some fun again may mean you are bored of the sex you have with your partner? Have you tried spicing things up in the bedroom? Have you told him how it affects you when he compares you to his exs?
 
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I think maybe you need to try talk to your husband about how you feel if you haven’t already.
He might not realise he’s upsetting you talking about ex’s and might not realise how you feel at all.