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I really feel like a worthless pathetic guy my live life is a total failure i am a failure no girl wants me so i self harm everyday i want to stop my pain ive been living with lonliness for years even tho im 21 rn i feel like i have no future i dont deserce to live i dont deserve life no girl wants a guy like me
 
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Hurting yourself isn't going to improve your life, dude. Finding a GF won't make all your problems disappear, either.

Is being single the main reason for feeling worthless, or are there other things bothering you?
 
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a bit of that yes i was also abused and lonliness not feeling wanted or loved
 
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Have you talked to anybody, like a mental health professional, about the abuse?

That would be a good first step.
 
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i have but its hard to say cause its traumatic and its hard to forget about
 
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You are not worthless or pathetic. Everyone is worthy of being loved. Don’t search for it, it will come to you. The self harm won’t help or make you feel better. It will just add to the problem
 
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i am i just got a reply from a job i applied not long ago and they keep rejecting me too i cant get a job im worthless im not worth living i cant get any money i might as well commit suicide
 
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tom122727 said:
i am i just got a reply from a job i applied not long ago and they keep rejecting me too i cant get a job im worthless im not worth living i cant get any money i might as well commit suicide
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no no, don’t take it as you’re not wanted. A lot of people get rejected from jobs for so many reasons, even I have. It doesn’t mean somethings wrong with you. Don’t give up, life is worth living. I know it doesn’t feel that way now, but things will eventually get better. :hug:
 
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tom122727 said:
I really feel like a worthless pathetic guy my live life is a total failure i am a failure no girl wants me so i self harm everyday i want to stop my pain ive been living with lonliness for years even tho im 21 rn i feel like i have no future i dont deserce to live i dont deserve life no girl wants a guy like me
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I am sure you can get a girlfriend, you just have to try harder, women are very understanding nowadays, well they always have been.
 
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