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Twinkle Toes
Well-known member
Hi
Wondered if any other autistic people had this cos I'm wondering if I'm accidentally breaking 'unwritten rules' repeatedly and I don't realise cos of the autism.
I start a new forum everyone's welcoming but then inevitably I always reach the point where posts I write get ignored or if another post was getting lots of replies and i joined in to reply then no-one else replies after.
I never understand what I did so move to another forum for a while and use a different name, sometimes I return to a past forum under another name assuming if people know its me again they won't answer but they may have a post on there thats really relevant to me or where I could get support for something if people don't realise it's someone they decided they didn't like.
Any other autie's find themselves in this cycle? It does affect real life relationships too as I don't have confidence to let people get to know me incase they reach the stage they don't like me and I can't just change my name and turn into a different person in real life where neighbours etc will obviously see its still the body they know as 'you'.
Anyone get what I mean?
Tinks
Wondered if any other autistic people had this cos I'm wondering if I'm accidentally breaking 'unwritten rules' repeatedly and I don't realise cos of the autism.
I start a new forum everyone's welcoming but then inevitably I always reach the point where posts I write get ignored or if another post was getting lots of replies and i joined in to reply then no-one else replies after.
I never understand what I did so move to another forum for a while and use a different name, sometimes I return to a past forum under another name assuming if people know its me again they won't answer but they may have a post on there thats really relevant to me or where I could get support for something if people don't realise it's someone they decided they didn't like.
Any other autie's find themselves in this cycle? It does affect real life relationships too as I don't have confidence to let people get to know me incase they reach the stage they don't like me and I can't just change my name and turn into a different person in real life where neighbours etc will obviously see its still the body they know as 'you'.
Anyone get what I mean?
Tinks