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ROCD

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gurl2134

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So I have problems with ROCD, but today I realized what I was facing was not part of my ROCD. I have fears of being vocal about my needs and wants to my boyfriend, because I’m scared. I talked with my counselor today about it and she said that wasn’t healthy along with a few other things. My boyfriend and I have been together for a whole year starting last Friday, I am not in any way looking to throw that away because of a little fork in the road with him and I. I am preparing to get my needs met and have a healthy relationship with my boyfriend who I love so much, and want to marry. Thoughts?
 
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Zoe1

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I dont know, well I get that also
in a relationship I stop voicing my wants and needs
in fact I no longer know what my wants and needs are
its like as if I'm hypnotised or something

I'm working on the idea that it needs to be the right person for me
that the right person will encourage me to come out of myself

:hug:
 
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