- Jan 17, 2021
- United Kingdom
Hi I joined this forum yesterday really pleased something like this exists. I guess I'm looking to see if anyone out there experiences or experienced the same as me because I cannot find anything online about it. I think I have HOCD but it's not towards myself. It's towards my partner who identifies as a straight male. I cannot stop thinking he is actually gay. Anytime he comments on a great actor they are always male. He also calls everyone women and men names like "sweetheart" "darling" etc and I'm on such high alert. I even asked him outright recently to which he said no. I don't know how to get these thoughts to stop and I genuinely wonder whether I'm the only one with this type of OCD?