- Nov 11, 2013
Okay - firstly your wife has a wonderful self image of herself, and being female, I am so impressed as that is hard to have the older one gets. Firstly, what are you comparing you wife to... if its 23 year olds I can guarantee that you will be disappointed. The female body at 50+ will NEVER be like that again. NEVER... Biology, hormones, menopause, you name will all conspire against us to never attain that. Super models who only consume 800 calories a day are generally psycho and not nice people to be around. So you need to make a decision - thinness or niceness. And if the tables were turned and she said to you - you are not a butch six packed man anymore so I am not interested in you, how would you feel. I know I'm being harsh, but kindness, gentleness and genuine love surmount most physical aspects.