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notomorrowtoday
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For the people who have had great struggles in their mid-lives, after 5-10 years do you feel that it helped you? Also, if you had to take medication, do you feel that that helped you?
The question relates to my mother, who I see now as far stronger than ever(having life threatening mental stress and taking medication for probably the best/worst of one year(medication alone), which happened 7 years ago). I still feel it is better to run away from inevitable problems than to fight them and become almost destroyed, what do you think, or what did happen to you?
i have had no life threatenting problems as my mother has(I cannot find any wood to touch, which scares me), so i cannot truely judge or understand but i am extremely eager to hear others struggles and triumphs, and failures.
I do talk to her about it to show her that i do not consider it as something that did affect me, but i want to help/understand her more, even though she is far more life wise than me, i believe as a result of her struggles.
i understand that there are others that could not recuperate and i bet, what ever i can imagine and more there is a person out there to show it, but please tell me your experiences, recoveries, failures and triumphs. I dont really know if i wanted to ask a question or explain myself (i only respect being reall so have to try to be it myself) but i REALLY do want to hear responses either way, so please talk to me, the internet is a great place to say things you do not want to say, just as i have seriously just learnt.
do you think im wrong in saying that people care too much for their lives, worry too much that is?....for myself, i want to experience it all, pain, happiness, numbness, is it not just society that cares and us that follow, may sound like coming from a teenager but the more you know about the way the world works the more you realize how fake it is and it eats you and rips you aprt

The question relates to my mother, who I see now as far stronger than ever(having life threatening mental stress and taking medication for probably the best/worst of one year(medication alone), which happened 7 years ago). I still feel it is better to run away from inevitable problems than to fight them and become almost destroyed, what do you think, or what did happen to you?
i have had no life threatenting problems as my mother has(I cannot find any wood to touch, which scares me), so i cannot truely judge or understand but i am extremely eager to hear others struggles and triumphs, and failures.
I do talk to her about it to show her that i do not consider it as something that did affect me, but i want to help/understand her more, even though she is far more life wise than me, i believe as a result of her struggles.
i understand that there are others that could not recuperate and i bet, what ever i can imagine and more there is a person out there to show it, but please tell me your experiences, recoveries, failures and triumphs. I dont really know if i wanted to ask a question or explain myself (i only respect being reall so have to try to be it myself) but i REALLY do want to hear responses either way, so please talk to me, the internet is a great place to say things you do not want to say, just as i have seriously just learnt.
do you think im wrong in saying that people care too much for their lives, worry too much that is?....for myself, i want to experience it all, pain, happiness, numbness, is it not just society that cares and us that follow, may sound like coming from a teenager but the more you know about the way the world works the more you realize how fake it is and it eats you and rips you aprt

