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Relationship help -partners parents over controlling ?

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tiltawhirl3

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RUN!!! People like them do not change. and yes, it is terribly abusive. all of it.
You deserve so much better!
This is NOT love.
 
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Guitar1991, you're 100% NOT the abusive one here - not by a long shot! It sounds like you're surrounded by a lot of toxic, manipulative people who are emotionally abusing you.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with staying with your dad once in a while. It's actually a really lovely thing to do and anyone who genuinely loved you and had your best interests at heart wouldn't ask you to stop doing it. You can be both a good boyfriend to your partner and visit your dad.

Your partner messaging another man behind your back after he's sent her explicit photos is really out of order on her part. You're right to feel upset about it and to consider it disrespectful.

What can I do . I’ve increased my quetiapine which seems to help. because I’ve been living here with her parent she always says how much they’ve helped me and that I’m being ungrateful.
Top priority is probably to get out of there as soon as possible. You're not being ungrateful, you're just asking for basic human decency. Doing good deeds for you in the past doesn't give your partner or her parents the right to mistreat you the way they are doing.
 
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My advice is the same as before - get. out. of. there. It just sounds worse and worse the more I hear. Rather than trying to get 8000 together, figure out how you can start to sell asap. You are just going to be used and milked for money. She and her parents are not respecting you. You deserve better.

Side note - you should be worried about this man. Deleting the messages is very suspicious. It sounds like you're not in a good partnership and need to get out of it.
 
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