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Ed2o9

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So this is almost a follow on from my previous post.
My partner has bpd...I have educated myself as much as I can...and continue to with any information and have read a lot of thread's on this site that has been extremely helpful....as in looking from both sides.
This may sound slly but I will ask regardless....we had a argument...it has been done and said and move forward etc.
But in a reply I had from her I quote ( you are not the problem or solution )
I don't know why but I can't shift this out of my brain..... thoughts?
 
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Thats a pretty meaningless thing to say. I think she means its not your fault and there's nothing you can do. I think you're doing great just to be with a person with BPD.
 
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You're right.....I guess because she can come across somewhat in a different manner it can be taken the wrong way.... Now I feel daft!......she is a amazing person and I love her very much.
 
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