- Jun 26, 2014
- Avenue Q in the US
The woman that abused me acted in the same way which was made worse because she was basically my mom after my actual mom left my dad and had been in my life for a majority of it. She’d do nice things and let me get some nice stuff occasionally such as a book or DVD but as soon as I did something she didn’t like, she’d take it away from me and refuse to give it back and justify it by saying it didn’t deserve it. There were times where she even passive aggressively verbally abused me in public but phrased it so that if anyone heard what she was saying that they’d think nothing of it because she wasn’t screaming at me or causing a scene. Everything wrong in her life was always my fault. She had a fight with her fiancé? My fault. She broke a nail after slapping me? My fault. Even the time she was driving and ripped off the sideview mirror on the driver side after backing up and past a pole was my fault. It was even my fault that she was single for so long! And the irony was how big she was on making sure I always took responsibility for things that I did wrong when she never did the same.She sounds really abusive. To accuse you of being weak and then accuse you of fancying the staff is totally abusive. So what if she gave you a nice birthday? She is not consistent in being nice. I really think you are confused as she can be nice at times. You deserve somebody who is always kind and does not make you fear her reactions.