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Pros and cons

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gurl2134

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I keep feeling like if I made a pros and cons chart about my relationship there would be more cons. It really makes me sad, in all honesty I wish things were all the way good between me and my boyfriend. I want to be with him. But he makes me scared when he gets mad in certain situations, I freeze up and forget what im doing. Is there any way to work on this? I don’t want to end my relationship
 
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Pink1234

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I think that Pros and cons lists are useful and shouldn't be easily discounted in a situation where a relationship that makes you scared is concerned.

No-one should feel scared in a relationship. It sounds that it's your boyfriend that needs to work on this - maybe anger management classes would help.
 
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